Mercury conjunct Venus

With this contact, the way one of you talks is the way the other likes to be loved. A throwaway sentence can get saved and reread for weeks.

You enjoy talking to each other, and conversations flow with warmth and charm.

How a MatchMachine report sums up this aspect

A conjunction means one person’s Mercury and the other person’s Venus are about 0 degrees apart. On its own it counts as neither harmonious nor challenging. What the labels mean.

The two chairs

The Mercury person often finds they’re funnier and more articulate around this partner, because every small observation gets a warm reception. The Venus person tends to feel courted by language: the well-chosen text, the description of them to a friend that they happened to overhear, the note left on the fridge.

So a lot of the affection in this pairing travels through words. You may well end up with long running jokes, private nicknames and a habit of reading bits of things aloud to each other.

When it’s too pleasant

Pleasant talk can become a way of steering around unpleasant talk. The Venus person may soften a complaint until it no longer sounds like one, and the Mercury person may hear only the soft part. Six months later, one of you is surprised to learn that the vacation plans, or the weekly dinners with their family, were never really fine.

Flattery can also creep in. When you both enjoy the sound of nice things, it can feel rude to say something true and plain.

Keeping the talk honest

Try setting aside a time for the less charming subjects, such as money, chores or what’s been bothering you, so that raising them doesn’t feel like spoiling a lovely evening. If you’re the Mercury person, ask one follow-up question when your partner says “it’s fine”. If you’re the Venus person, practice saying the awkward thing before you’ve made it pretty. You can trust each other with an unpolished sentence, and it usually comes out better than you feared.

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