Sun opposite Venus

The Venus person looks at the Sun person and likes what they see, and the Sun person is more than happy to be looked at.

A magnetic romantic attraction where you embody qualities the other finds irresistible.

How a MatchMachine report sums up this aspect

A opposition means one person’s Sun and the other person’s Venus are about 180 degrees apart. On its own it counts as neither harmonious nor challenging. What the labels mean.

What it feels like

This aspect is a lot of appreciation going in one clear direction, and usually coming back. The Venus person is charmed by the Sun person’s way of being in the world, and the Sun person feels lit up and more confident around them. Because it’s an opposition, the attraction tends to involve difference: you like what they’re like because you’re not quite like that yourself.

Where it shows up

Compliments, attention and how you look together tend to matter here. You probably enjoy being out as a couple. There can also be a pull between pleasing and being pleased: the Venus person may adjust their taste and plans to keep things pleasant, and the Sun person may get used to that without noticing.

Later on, the question tends to be whether you like each other as you are or as you each look from across the room.

What helps

Be honest about the small things early, such as the restaurant you don’t actually like or the plan that doesn’t suit you. Disagreeing won’t break this contact, and a bit of friction makes the compliments believable. If you’re the Sun person, make sure you’re as curious about them as they are about you.

Say what you value in each other beyond looks and charm, because those are the things that remain after the first impression has worn off.

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