Venus conjunct Venus

You both pick the same painting, order the same thing and hate the same kind of restaurant. It’s a small daily pleasure to have your taste backed up by someone you like.

You share the same love language and values, a true meeting of hearts.

How a MatchMachine report sums up this aspect

A conjunction means one person’s Venus and the other person’s Venus are about 0 degrees apart. On its own it counts as neither harmonious nor challenging. What the labels mean.

An agreeable life

Two Venuses in the same place means you tend to like similar things and to show affection in similar ways. You’d both rather get a card, or both rather get a practical present, and neither of you needs that explained. You probably fight less than most couples about vacations, furniture or what counts as a nice time.

Venus never strays far from the Sun, so people with birthdays close together on the calendar are more likely to have this. You can see it in friendships as well as romance, in those friends you’ve never once had to convince about where to eat.

Two people being nice

Shared taste can turn into a shared blind spot. If you both love comfort, the budget may never get looked at. If you both dislike conflict, you may each be waiting for the other one to tell the neighbor about the fence or raise the issue of whose turn it is. If you’ve got expensive tastes, well, you’ve both got them.

Friendly competition can also creep in. You might admire the same qualities in people, and notice when your partner gets the attention you’d like.

Adding some difference

Sameness is restful, and over the years it can get a bit sleepy. Bring home something neither of you would normally choose: a film, an odd dish, a friend who disagrees with you. Take turns being the one who has an inconvenient opinion.

And remember that liking the same things and wanting the same life are separate questions. It’s easy to assume that someone with your taste in everything also agrees about children, money or where to live. Ask anyway. You may be right, but it’s better to hear it than to assume it.

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