Unhurried desire
You tend to pursue someone patiently: turning up, cooking, staying close. You aren’t one for a dramatic gesture and a quick exit. Touch means a great deal to you, along with texture, scent, and a good long evening with no one watching the clock. You’d sooner spend three hours enjoying something than ten minutes conquering it. People may be surprised, after your calm exterior, by how much stamina and appetite you have.
You also tend to work steadily toward what you want, which often includes security. Money in the bank and a home you like can feel like the groundwork for love, and you may put in long hours building them.
The immovable object
Your conflict style is often simply not moving. You’ve stopped talking, you’ve folded your arms, and no argument is going to shift you tonight. You may let things build for a very long time as well, seeming fine, seeming fine, until one day you’re really not fine and it’s frightening how big it’s become.
Traditional astrology calls Mars “in detriment” here, since a planet that loves speed sits in a sign that hates being rushed. That isn’t a verdict on you. It mostly means you need to watch for two things: getting stuck in a rut because change is a lot of effort, and treating people you love as things you own. Being protective of what you’ve got is natural. Controlling whom someone sees or where they go isn’t, and no placement excuses it.
Try raising a small annoyance while it’s small. A sentence on Tuesday can save you an eruption in March.
Getting through to them
Don’t try to win in the moment. Say what you need, give your reasons, then leave it overnight. Pressure usually makes them more stubborn. Food helps, and so does starting the talk somewhere comfortable. Physical closeness tends to repair more for this placement than any amount of explaining, as long as the underlying issue does eventually get dealt with.