One sign, no translator
Sun and Moon together means a birth around the new Moon. Your purpose and your comfort are in the same place, and that place is the outside edge. You like odd ideas and odd people, and you’ve got little patience for doing something a certain way merely because it’s always been done like that. You can be very persuasive, you’ll commit bravely to your ideals, and you may be an excellent community organizer with a gift for making friends.
The paradox is that you care enormously about people from about ten thousand feet up. You could lead a movement without ever being comfortable hugging anyone in it. Usually a Moon supplies some private softness that your Sun doesn’t have. Yours sees the same view. You may find your own feelings puzzling, and study them as you would a curious foreign custom.
Relationships as a possible barrier
It’s easy for you to see relationships as a threat to your independence, particularly the conventional kind. So you might want a partner who’s also a best friend and who keeps their own place, or some other arrangement you’ve designed together. That can work very well, and it needs saying out loud at the start.
You’re honest, fair and unusually accepting of who someone is. Your partner won’t get much jealousy or many demands. They might sometimes want more of both. Someone who needs regular reassurance may feel they’re knocking at a door that you think you’ve left open.
Finding the warm parts
Look to the rest of your chart, since a Venus or Rising in another element can say a lot about how you can get close. Tell a person directly that they matter, in words, more often than seems necessary. And keep a small habit of contact, like a daily message. It costs you very little freedom and buys a lot of trust.