Living on your wits
With both in air signs, your mental gears never really stop. You’re more determined than you look, too. People hear the banter and miss the purpose. You’d do well in any work that pays you to think and talk, such as writing, advertising, teaching or speaking to a crowd, and you may have done several of those by now.
Details wear you out, and routine wears you out faster. Success, for you, often depends on developing just enough habit and decisiveness to bring one of those many projects to an end. You probably knew that already, and you’ve got an interesting theory about why you don’t do it.
Companionship as conversation
Having someone around matters a great deal to you, but it has to be the right someone. You need a mind to bounce things off, and a person who’s still surprising you after five years. When you’ve got that, you’re a playful, generous and rarely jealous partner. Talk is intimacy for you.
Your partner may eventually want a slower kind of contact. Because both of your lights process feelings through words and ideas, you can talk through a painful event at length and still never quite feel it. Silence might make you nervous. A person who shows love through sitting close, saying little, may leave you wondering if something’s wrong.
Slowing the signal
Try putting the phone in another room for a whole meal. Now and then, go somewhere with a person and don’t narrate it. When something hurts, give it a day before you’ve got a theory. Choose your one or two things to finish each year and tell a friend, since the embarrassment of telling people you’ve dropped it is often what gets you to the end.