Opposites in one person
With the Sun and Moon across the zodiac from each other, your birth likely fell near a full moon, and your two instincts don’t agree. Libra thinks it over, wants everyone on board and looks for what’s fair. Aries wants to start immediately, alone, and doesn’t much care who minds. So you’re a feisty Libra: restless, bursting with energy in short hot spells, and allergic to boredom.
The usual complaint about Libra, that it can’t make a decision, doesn’t really fit you. Playing devil’s advocate may be your favorite sport, and you can make it entertaining.
Courtship and then the row
You tend to love the whole ritual of romance: the chase, the suspense, the excitement, and maybe the spectacular fight followed by making up. Your feelings are warm and open, and you can leap into something very quickly. Relationships are central to your life, and you likely rely on your partner more than you’d ever admit out loud.
The difficulty comes when the spark settles down, as it does. You may start looking around, or pick a quarrel to feel something. It’s easy to blame the relationship for what’s really a restlessness you’ve brought with you. Insisting on your own way can also cost you more than you’d guess, because it tends to drown out your own good judgment, which is one of the best things Libra gives you.
Making your own excitement
Try finding excitement that doesn’t depend on your partner supplying it: a sport, a campaign, a hard new skill. You’ll bring more home that way. Agree on what kind of argument you both enjoy, and notice when the other person has stopped enjoying it. You want a relationship of equals, and that means sometimes losing to someone who isn’t arguing back. A partner’s silence might not be agreement.